Add bloom filter statistics to ParquetExec

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

It appears that there is no good way to know if the bloom filter code is working via logging or metrics 🤔

We have metrics on ParquetExec that explain when row groups are pruned, but now that we can prune them via statistics or bloom filters, we can't tell which was used in a particular query

Among other things this meant it was hard to reproduce / diagnose issues like #8685

Describe the solution you'd like

Add some metrics for parquet pruning

Describe alternatives you've considered

@my-vegetable-has-exploded has a branch that could be a good starting point:
I check it by the metric I add myself(like https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/compare/main...my-vegetable-has-exploded:arrow-datafusion:metric-sbbf?expand=1) , Should

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