fix(accordion): accordions expand when using binding

[liamdebeasi]

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• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features)
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What is the current behavior?

Issue URL: resolves #25307

What is the new behavior?

• If we need to expand the accordion but the refs are not setup, the internal state is just set to "Expanded" and the accordion will automatically open (I.e. no animation)

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

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