fix(item): highlight now appears above helper/error text

[willmartian]

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• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features)
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What is the current behavior?

Issue Number: resolves #23510

What is the new behavior?

• The helper and error slots in ion-item no longer rely on the fill property being set.
• The ion-item highlight now always appears in the correct position.

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

[liamdebeasi]

Great job! Good to merge if tests pass and there are no screenshot regressions.