Revert back to build isolation by default; support extra-pip-args on sync command.

[matteius]

The issue

Lack of build isolation means that build requirements no longer are implicitly installed and have to be installed ahead of time. I am revisiting that decision to change the default isolation level because I feel it has already caused enough problems with existing workflows, and I realized an alternate solution is to recommend users that have issues requiring pre-requisites to pass --extra-pip-args="--no-build-isolation" in their install or sync commands.

Fixes #5391
Fixes #5398

The checklist

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[nk9]

Thank you guys for engaging so quickly with this problem.