[Core] Locality-aware leasing: Milestone 3 - Spillback

[clarkzinzow]

Implement locality-aware leasing for owned refs, such that locality is considered on task spillback.

See #12812 for the parent issue and a link to the design doc.

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[clarkzinzow]

Not stale, just reprioritized. 🙂