Validate CommonName attribute for TLS certificate

[tennix]

Feature Request

Describe your feature request related problem:

Currently, any TLS certificates issued by the same CA can access TiDB cluster component. This is insecure as the same CA issued certificates are pretty common.

Describe the feature you'd like:

Allow PD add TLS certificate CN validation, this is the issue in TiKV and TiDB tikv/tikv#6982 pingcap/tidb#15137

Describe alternatives you've considered:

Teachability, Documentation, Adoption, Migration Strategy:

Etcd 3.3.0 supports the same feature https://github.com/etcd-io/etcd/blob/master/Documentation/op-guide/security.md#notes-for-tls-authentication

[nolouch]

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