reduce dependency size

[SuperchupuDev]

Describe the feature

a few potential improvements i've noticed:

chokidar v3 -> v4 (it drops all 13 subdependencies but one)
fs-extra -> normal modern node:fs usage
globby -> tinyglobby

Additional information

• Would you be willing to help implement this feature?

[pi0]

Thanks for the suggestions.

Next version of nitro v2 will drop fs-extra because we didn't need it that much (#2743)

Changing glob lib is tricky and needs more consideration before we adopt something lighter across unjs ecosystem, most likely happening in nitro v3 and for chokiar since watchOptions was exposed to users, it is a breaking change to upgrade but easy one for nitro v3.