fix: avoid hydration mismatch warning for styles with different order

[zh-lx]

close #10006, close #10000

1. avoid hydration mismatch warning for styles with different order
2. when element with props vShow or v-show, show add display: none when compare match
3. Some attributes of element can't be gotten by el.hasAttribute(key) such as value of textarea. So we should add checks by el[key] to validate.

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Size Report

Bundles

File	Size	Gzip	Brotli
runtime-dom.global.prod.js	89.4 kB	34 kB	30.7 kB
vue.global.prod.js	146 kB	53.3 kB	47.6 kB

Usages

Name	Size	Gzip	Brotli
createApp	49.7 kB	19.5 kB	17.8 kB
createSSRApp	53.1 kB	20.8 kB	19 kB
defineCustomElement	52 kB	20.2 kB	18.5 kB
overall	63.2 kB	24.4 kB	22.2 kB

[yyx990803]

A note on e2ac3b5 - getSSRProps is only initialized on the directives during server render, and is not available in the client build, so we can't rely on that to handle SSR injected props.

For now, we'll just special-case v-show since that is the only built-in directive that affects style hydration.