[PERF] Optimize filter on nested growables

[jaychia]

This PR optimizes the new filter on nested arrays that uses growables

1. Adds some fixes for FullNull impls of the arrays, which was broken due to some naming problems
2. Adds microbenchmarks for filter
3. Adds optimizations for our filter and growable impls:
   a. Make self.growable_validity optional, which speeds up the case where use_validity=False
   b. Adds an early return for when the mask is all true/all false
4. Share a generic filter implementation across ListArray, StructArray and FixedSizeListArray

This brings us to parity within +-2% of our previous implementation of filter

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #1349 (1e3b7dc) into main (13d71e4) will decrease coverage by 0.02%.
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