[PERF] Move with_column and exclude function logic to Rust side, add with_columns

[kevinzwang]

This PR includes two things:

• a performance improvement to calling (not execution of) DataFrame.with_column and DataFrame.exclude where projection conversion is done on the Rust side so that costly conversions of the dataframe fields into Python objects are no longer necessary
• the addition of the DataFrame.with_columns method which allows adding multiple columns to a dataframe at once. Will also improve performance over calling with_column multiple times. Since I was modifying the with_column function I figured I would add this as a drive-by

I also took this opportunity to clean up some of the rust builder code.

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[jaychia]

Seems fine to me, were we able to run any quick sanity benchmarking to make sure that this fixes the slowdowns?

[kevinzwang]

Quick performance results:

Péter's script in the community Slack went from an average of 49.02s to 5.84s per run on my machine, averaged over 5 runs.