[BUG] Add resources to Ray stateful UDF actor

[kevinzwang]

Fix for #2878

Not sure how feasible it is to unit test this since it would likely require access to a GPU. However I tested this on a GPU machine and can confirm that this PR fixes GPU availability in stateful actors when using the ray runner.

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #2987 will not alter performance

_{Comparing kevin/ray-actor-resources (7754d52) with main (62d0581)}

Summary

✅ 17 untouched benchmarks

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 78.35%. Comparing base (fe4553f) to head (7754d52).
Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
daft/execution/physical_plan.py	94.28% <ø> (+0.15%)	⬆️
daft/runners/pyrunner.py	85.25% <100.00%> (ø)
daft/runners/ray_runner.py	80.69% <100.00%> (+0.06%)	⬆️
daft/runners/runner.py	71.87% <ø> (ø)

... and 7 files with indirect coverage changes

[jaychia]

Let's add a test? I think you can access the Ray resource requests from inside a Ray actor. Check out some of our resource request tests

[jaychia]

What is this, why do we need it?

If this is the task-based one we can also do _task_resource_request