ci: Use lld linker in windows tests

[evenyag]

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• windows ci failed with STATUS_DLL_INIT_FAILED #3902

What's changed and what's your intention?

This PR attempts to Make Actions Pass Again, MAPA in short.

It switches the default linker to LLVM's lld which has lower memory consumption. It also enables logs for the test test_tls_file_change_watch.

The previous action cost 50m to compile tests...... Most time is spent in linking.
https://github.com/GreptimeTeam/greptimedb/actions/runs/9087338152/job/24981188499

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• I have written the necessary rustdoc comments.
• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.
• This PR does not require documentation updates.

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 85.60%. Comparing base (cfae276) to head (c9a942d).
Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

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- Misses      23815    24015     +200