bugfix: fix the error of active refresh failure of cross-database table metadata

[GoodBoyCoder]

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

Fixed the error that may cause failure to refresh table metadata cache across databases under the same resourceId due to lack of original table name information

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

fixes #6685

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 71.42857% with 8 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 52.31%. Comparing base (9263976) to head (fb09700).
Report is 4 commits behind head on 2.x.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...urce/sql/struct/cache/SqlServerTableMetaCache.java	50.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
...a/org/apache/seata/sqlparser/struct/TableMeta.java	0.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/AbstractTableMetaCache.java	75.00%	0 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/PolarDBXTableMetaCache.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage     52.31%   52.31%           
- Complexity     6375     6377    +2     
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  Files          1078     1078           
  Lines         37483    37485    +2     
  Branches       4440     4438    -2     
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+ Hits          19608    19612    +4     
  Misses        15938    15938           
+ Partials       1937     1935    -2     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
.../datasource/sql/struct/cache/DmTableMetaCache.java	83.33% <100.00%> (+0.18%)	⬆️
...source/sql/struct/cache/MariadbTableMetaCache.java	77.77% <100.00%> (ø)
...tasource/sql/struct/cache/MysqlTableMetaCache.java	86.81% <100.00%> (+2.03%)	⬆️
...asource/sql/struct/cache/OracleTableMetaCache.java	66.99% <100.00%> (-0.32%)	⬇️
...rce/sql/struct/cache/PostgresqlTableMetaCache.java	78.57% <100.00%> (+3.82%)	⬆️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/AbstractTableMetaCache.java	83.33% <75.00%> (-1.97%)	⬇️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/PolarDBXTableMetaCache.java	11.11% <0.00%> (ø)
...urce/sql/struct/cache/SqlServerTableMetaCache.java	78.70% <50.00%> (-0.20%)	⬇️
...a/org/apache/seata/sqlparser/struct/TableMeta.java	69.86% <0.00%> (-3.00%)	⬇️

[funky-eyes]

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