[INLONG-11493][SDK] Inlong SDK Dirty Sink supports retry sending

[vernedeng]

Fixes #11493

Motivation

Add the ability to retry and limit the amount of dirty SDK in flight

Modifications

Add two options to configure max retry time and the max callback size

Verifying this change

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  • Added integration tests for end-to-end deployment with large payloads (10MB)
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Documentation

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