refactor: some code in GitHub Actions

[yihong0618]

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Summary

1. fix typo in rocksdb
2. try to use default-features = false for rust-rocksdb to reduce the build time in actions
3. use services actions instead
4. some actions must failed if it is a fork we disable them by check the user

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I do not know why the ipfs test failed... I did not change it.

[Xuanwo]

So nice!