feat: Adds telemetry events to submitter and adaptor

[marofke]

What was the problem/requirement? (What/Why)

We can't currently tell if anyone is using houdini submitters / adaptors

What was the solution? (How)

Uses changes from aws-deadline/deadline-cloud#205 to capture more package information when sending telemetry data, and changes from aws-deadline/deadline-cloud#212 to opt out of telemetry from an environment variable.

What is the impact of this change?

We can better tell how customers use our software and if they use Houdini

How was this change tested?

• ran the integrated submitter, and submitted a job, verifying it wrote telemetry (and didn't when opted out)
• ran the adaptor locally, confirming it wrote telemetry (and didn't when opted out)
• ran unit tests using deadline-cloud changes from mainline, they passed

Was this change documented?

Updated README with opt out instructions

Is this a breaking change?

No