fix(useValidAriaValues): correctly check property types

[Conaclos]

Summary

Fix #3748

This PR fixes several bugs and improves the diagnostics of useValidAriaValues.

• Properties that expect a string now accept arbitrary text.
• An identifiers can now be made up of any characters except ASCII whitespace.
• An identifier list can now be separated by any ASCII whitespace.

Test Plan

I added some tests.

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #3768 will not alter performance

_{Comparing conaclos/useValidAriaValues-3748 (fd8fcd9) with main (35e9e6d)}

Summary

✅ 99 untouched benchmarks