Isolating distribution testing

[leahwicz]

resolves #1069

Problem

We validate wheel and source distributions in the same environment during the build validation step. This led to issues documented here dbt-labs/dbt-core#10465.

Solution

This is the same solution as what we did in dbt-snowflake first: dbt-labs/dbt-snowflake#1161
This is to bring parity to the other repos as well.

This is a test run of the Action running with the installation and testing of wheels and source distributions split into separate Actions Jobs that isolate them from one another: https://github.com/leahwicz/dbt-spark/actions/runs/10821352615

Checklist

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