add USE_CUSOLVER config

[crazy-cat]

add USE_CUSOLVER config, Synchronize with apache/mxnet#8437

[szha]

This code base has been donated to the Apache MXNet project per #373, and repo is deprecated. Future development should continue in Apache MXNet.

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