[CI/CD] Update and fix actions, add macOS arm64 build

[taysta]

Updates actions to latest versions. Adds macOS arm64 builds to workflow.

CICD:

• Uses aptitude to install broken Ubuntu x86 dependencies
• Updates actions to latest version
• Uses set runner images instead of latest as the windows-2022 (latest) image does not come with v141_xp toolchain, ubuntu 22.04 has some glibc backwards compatibility issues and macos-latest may eventually become arm runners
• Updates release action to actively maintained version as old one was abandoned and had depreciated node versions
• Removes libpng from macos install as it is pre-installed on the runner image
• Action tested on my repo, runs with no warnings, builds pass and release was successful
• Upload .tar.gz files for linux and macOS instead of a .tar inside of a .zip

Misc

• Add JetBrains IDE configuration files to .gitignore

macOS arm64:

• GitHub Actions now supports arm64 builds, jaMME already supports arm64.
• Added macOS arm64 action to the workflow.
• Tested locally on arm64 macOS Sonoma 14.4.1, got it to run by doing the following:

1. Installed In /MacintoshHD/Users/tayst/Library/Application Support/jaMME/ (replace tayst with your username) with a base folder containing jka assets pk3s, and opened a terminal in the jaMME folder.
2. In the terminal I ran:

sudo xattr -r -d com.apple.quarantine jamme.app rd-jamme_arm64.dylib mme/uiarm64.dylib mme/jampgamearm64.dylib mme/cgamearm64.dylib
codesign --force --deep --sign - jamme.app

3. I started the game with the following command in the terminal:
   ./jamme.app/Contents/MacOS/jamme +set fs_game "mme" +set fs_extraGames "japlus japp"