Delete stale metrics on object delete

The metrics helper now accepts owned finalizers to determine if an
object is no longer managed by the controller and is being deleted, and
deletes the metrics associated with the object.

Call the metrics recording defer function in controller early to be able
to record the object in deleting state.

Signed-off-by: Sunny <[email protected]>

go.mod

@@ -13,6 +13,8 @@ replace (
 	sigs.k8s.io/kustomize/kyaml => sigs.k8s.io/kustomize/kyaml v0.14.2
 )
 
+replace github.com/fluxcd/pkg/runtime => github.com/fluxcd/pkg/runtime v0.41.1-0.20230810193920-a1769265eedf
+
 require (
 	github.com/AdaLogics/go-fuzz-headers v0.0.0-20230106234847-43070de90fa1
 	github.com/Masterminds/sprig/v3 v3.2.3
@@ -21,8 +23,8 @@ require (
 	github.com/fluxcd/image-automation-controller/api v0.35.0
 	github.com/fluxcd/image-reflector-controller/api v0.29.0
 	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/apis/acl v0.1.0
-	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/apis/event v0.5.1
-	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/apis/meta v1.1.1
+	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/apis/event v0.5.2
+	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/apis/meta v1.1.2
 	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/git v0.12.3
 	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/git/gogit v0.12.1
 	github.com/fluxcd/pkg/gittestserver v0.8.4
@@ -33,15 +35,15 @@ require (
 	github.com/go-git/go-git/v5 v5.7.0
 	github.com/go-logr/logr v1.2.4
 	github.com/google/go-containerregistry v0.15.2
-	github.com/onsi/gomega v1.27.8
+	github.com/onsi/gomega v1.27.10
 	github.com/otiai10/copy v1.12.0
 	github.com/spf13/pflag v1.0.5
-	k8s.io/api v0.27.3
-	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.27.3
-	k8s.io/client-go v0.27.3
+	k8s.io/api v0.27.4
+	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.27.4
+	k8s.io/client-go v0.27.4
 	k8s.io/kube-openapi v0.0.0-20230501164219-8b0f38b5fd1f
 	k8s.io/utils v0.0.0-20230505201702-9f6742963106
-	sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime v0.15.0
+	sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime v0.15.1
 	sigs.k8s.io/kustomize/kyaml v0.14.2
 )
 
@@ -116,7 +118,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/prometheus/client_model v0.4.0 // indirect
 	github.com/prometheus/common v0.42.0 // indirect
 	github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.10.1 // indirect
-	github.com/russross/blackfriday v1.6.0 // indirect
+	github.com/russross/blackfriday/v2 v2.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/sergi/go-diff v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/shopspring/decimal v1.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/skeema/knownhosts v1.1.1 // indirect
@@ -125,18 +127,17 @@ require (
 	github.com/xanzy/ssh-agent v0.3.3 // indirect
 	github.com/xlab/treeprint v1.2.0 // indirect
 	go.starlark.net v0.0.0-20221028183056-acb66ad56dd2 // indirect
-	go.uber.org/atomic v1.10.0 // indirect
-	go.uber.org/multierr v1.8.0 // indirect
-	go.uber.org/zap v1.24.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/crypto v0.10.0 // indirect
+	go.uber.org/multierr v1.10.0 // indirect
+	go.uber.org/zap v1.25.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/crypto v0.11.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/mod v0.10.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/net v0.10.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/net v0.13.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.7.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sys v0.9.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/term v0.9.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/text v0.10.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.10.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/term v0.10.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/text v0.11.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/time v0.3.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/tools v0.9.1 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/tools v0.9.3 // indirect
 	gomodules.xyz/jsonpatch/v2 v2.3.0 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/appengine v1.6.7 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/protobuf v1.30.0 // indirect
@@ -146,10 +147,10 @@ require (
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1 // indirect
 	k8s.io/apiextensions-apiserver v0.27.3 // indirect
 	k8s.io/cli-runtime v0.27.2 // indirect
-	k8s.io/component-base v0.27.3 // indirect
+	k8s.io/component-base v0.27.4 // indirect
 	k8s.io/klog/v2 v2.100.1 // indirect
-	k8s.io/kubectl v0.25.4 // indirect
-	sigs.k8s.io/cli-utils v0.34.0 // indirect
+	k8s.io/kubectl v0.26.0 // indirect
+	sigs.k8s.io/cli-utils v0.35.0 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/json v0.0.0-20221116044647-bc3834ca7abd // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/kustomize/api v0.13.4 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/structured-merge-diff/v4 v4.2.3 // indirect