fix: use memory logger instance when disabled

[shetzel]

What does this PR do?

use a memory logger when disabled

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

@W-14424066@
forcedotcom/cli#2553

[WillieRuemmele]

QA Notes

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 ➜  ls ~/.sf/ | grep sf-
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1
 ➜  ./bin/dev.js config:list --global
List Config
==========================================
| Name                     Location Value  
| ──────────────────────── ──────── ────── 
| disable-telemetry        Global   true   
| org-metadata-rest-deploy Global   true   
| target-dev-hub           Global   DevHub 
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1
 ➜  ls ~/.sf/ | grep sf-
sf-2023-11-08.log
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1
 ➜  rm -rf ~/.sf/sf-2023-11-0*
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1
 ➜  SFDX_DISABLE_LOG_FILE=true ./bin/dev.js config:list --global
List Config
==========================================
| Name                     Location Value  
| ──────────────────────── ──────── ────── 
| disable-telemetry        Global   true   
| org-metadata-rest-deploy Global   true   
| target-dev-hub           Global   DevHub 
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1
 ➜  ls ~/.sf/ | grep sf-
➜  plugin-settings git:(main) 🔗1

✅ : see no logs, run without env, see log, delete log, run WITH SFDX env, no log
✅ : see no logs, run without env, see log, delete log, run WITH SF env, no log
✅ : still logs to console with DEBUG=*