Backport of VAULT-30819: verify DR secondary leader before unsealing followers into release/1.18.x

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Description

After we've enabled DR replication on the secondary leader the existing cluster followers will be resealed with the primary clusters encryption keys. We have to unseal the followers to make them available. To ensure that we absolutely take every precaution before attempting to unseal the followers we now verify that the secondary leader is the cluster leader, has a valid merkle tree, and is streaming wals from the primary cluster before we attempt to unseal the secondary followers.

TODO only if you're a HashiCorp employee

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