feat(datetime-button): add support for custom, disabled, and accessible buttons

[liamdebeasi]

Pull request checklist

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• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features)
• Docs have been reviewed and added / updated if needed (for bug fixes / features)
  • Some docs updates need to be made in the ionic-docs repo, in a separate PR. See the contributing guide for details.
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Pull request type

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• Bugfix
• Feature
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• Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
• Build related changes
• Documentation content changes
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What is the current behavior?

Issue URL: Internal ticket

What is the new behavior?

• Added a "native" shadow part to allow developers to customize the native button elements inside the shadow dom.
• Added ripple effect to buttons on MD mode
• Refactored the architecture of the buttons so that the <button> element is never overridden. This means that developers:
  a) Do not need to provide a custom button (reduces boilerplate)
  b) Still get accessible buttons with aria-expanded. If they provided their own buttons they would need to do that themselves.

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

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