meta/sql: fix the deadlock in rename

[davies]

we use lock in SQL database to avoid conflict, the order of locks should be the same, otherwise there will be deadlock.

There is order: parent -> edge -> node -> chunk/flock/plock/edge

For rename, there is two parents, so we lock them in the beginning.

close #2060

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #2067 (b3d1a92) into main (436859d) will increase coverage by 0.15%.
The diff coverage is 57.57%.

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+ Coverage   61.50%   61.66%   +0.15%     
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  Files         137      138       +1     
  Lines       23893    24529     +636     
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+ Hits        14695    15125     +430     
- Misses       7478     7630     +152     
- Partials     1720     1774      +54     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
pkg/meta/sql.go	65.33% <57.57%> (+0.34%)	⬆️
pkg/utils/progress.go	76.47% <0.00%> (-15.30%)	⬇️
pkg/fs/fs.go	75.82% <0.00%> (-1.84%)	⬇️
cmd/bench.go	79.87% <0.00%> (-0.20%)	⬇️
pkg/chunk/cached_store.go	76.19% <0.00%> (-0.19%)	⬇️
pkg/meta/redis.go	71.50% <0.00%> (-0.11%)	⬇️
cmd/stats.go	20.07% <0.00%> (ø)
cmd/objbench.go	58.66% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/meta/base.go	70.18% <0.00%> (+0.18%)	⬆️
... and 19 more

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