Fix notebookUri/tab.uri comparison to handle leading slash differences

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Fixes #13018

Fixed bug in _getNotebookUriForTextDocumentUri logic to handle VS Code adding a / at the start of notebook URI paths. This was probably what was originally intended rather than checking endsWith on the whole URI.

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