refactor(instr-mongoose): use exported strings for attributes

[david-luna]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• Updates Update usage of semantic conventions to new exported strings #2025

Short description of the changes

• Update @opentelemetry/semantic-conventions to ^1.22
• Replace SemanticAttributes.* with exported strings SEMATTRS_*
• Update README with new semantic convention package version and key

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #2103 (eec3adc) into main (dfb2dff) will decrease coverage by 0.21%.
Report is 50 commits behind head on main.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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