Linux: O_TMPFILE and insert inode hash rework

[snajpa]

Motivation and Context

Byproduct of investigation done for #16608

Description

This change:

• reworks inode hash insert so that its in topmost layer and with inode unlock in the same order as other Linux FS implementations do it

• reworks O_TMPFILE creation to use new linux specific zp->z_is_tmpfile, this fixes a potential unchecked error return value of zpl_xattr_security_init

• changes igrabs to zhold where it can

• exchanges truncate_setsize for truncate_inode_pages_final in zpl_evict_inode to follow vfs.rst's
  "the method has to use truncate_inode_pages_final()"

notes + questions:

• not sure about the change from "working with inode" to "working with znode", can remove that, that's a bit of a leftover
• I'd like to eliminate the txg_wait_synced in zfs_link in the tmpfile case, I'd log it as a new file creation, is that ok?

How Has This Been Tested?

Localy during development and via the bots also

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Performance enhancement (non-breaking change which improves efficiency)
• Code cleanup (non-breaking change which makes code smaller or more readable)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• Library ABI change (libzfs, libzfs_core, libnvpair, libuutil and libzfsbootenv)
• Documentation (a change to man pages or other documentation)

Checklist:

• My code follows the OpenZFS code style requirements.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have read the contributing document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.
• I have run the ZFS Test Suite with this change applied.
• All commit messages are properly formatted and contain Signed-off-by.