*: forbid using cache when stale read in binary proto (#33818)

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cherry-pick #33818 to release-6.0
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What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #33814

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
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• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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