extension: support bootstrap for extension

[lcwangchao]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #38588

Problem Summary:

extension can bootstrap itself in a new extension framework. See the unit test for use case.

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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[lcwangchao]

/check-issue-triage-complete

[lcwangchao]

/run-check_dev

[xhebox]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: d3f75c8

[lcwangchao]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: ad7f253

[lcwangchao]

/run-build
/run-unit-test

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TiDB MergeCI notify

🔴 Bad News! New failing [1] after this pr merged.
These new failed integration tests seem to be caused by the current PR, please try to fix these new failed integration tests, thanks!

CI Name	Result	Duration	Compare with Parent commit
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-ddl-test	🟥 failed 1, success 5, total 6	30 min	New failing
idc-jenkins-ci/integration-cdc-test	🟢 all 38 tests passed	22 min	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-common-test	🟢 all 17 tests passed	15 min	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/common-test	🟢 all 11 tests passed	9 min 11 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/tics-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	6 min 21 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-2	🟢 all 28 tests passed	5 min 12 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-1	🟢 all 26 tests passed	4 min 32 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/mybatis-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	2 min 53 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-compatibility-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	2 min 42 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/plugin-test	🟢 build success, plugin test success	4min	Existing passed