[MPS] Lift MSL version to 3.0+ and use relevant helpers #3558

Job	Run time
unittests-extended	0s
onnx / linux-job	6m 1s
unittests-linux (3.11, linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	21m 20s
unittests-linux (3.10, linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	23m 8s
unittests-linux (3.12, linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	21m 57s
unittests-linux (3.9, linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	22m 49s
unittests-macos (3.10, macos-m1-stable) / macos-job	23m 55s
unittests-linux (3.9, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / linux-job	6m 45s
unittests-macos (3.11, macos-m1-stable) / macos-job	20m 24s
unittests-macos (3.12, macos-m1-stable) / macos-job	23m 1s
unittests-macos (3.9, macos-m1-stable) / macos-job	23m 20s
unittests-windows (3.10, windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	54m 41s
unittests-windows (3.11, windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	48m 56s
unittests-windows (3.12, windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	48m 13s
unittests-windows (3.9, windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	53m 9s
unittests-windows (3.9, windows.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / windows-job	3m 59s
	6h 41m 38s

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