Use "our own name-based hash and equality functions" for `std::type_i…

…ndex` only under macOS, based on results shown under pybind#4316 (comment)

include/pybind11/detail/internals.h

@@ -114,7 +114,7 @@ inline void tls_replace_value(PYBIND11_TLS_KEY_REF key, void *value) {
 // libstdc++, this doesn't happen: equality and the type_index hash are based on the type name,
 // which works.  If not under a known-good stl, provide our own name-based hash and equality
 // functions that use the type name.
-#if defined(__GLIBCXX__)
+#if !defined(__apple_build_version__)
 inline bool same_type(const std::type_info &lhs, const std::type_info &rhs) { return lhs == rhs; }
 using type_hash = std::hash<std::type_index>;
 using type_equal_to = std::equal_to<std::type_index>;