WIP move to pycapsule

[timkpaine]

apache/arrow#38010
apache/arrow#39195
finos/perspective#1157
apache/arrow#10488

This PR completely removes the pyarrow dependency and uses the new PyCapsule protocol to transfer data from a python layer (in this case the python library arrow_python_nocopy) to the c++ layer (in this case a C++ library called libarrow-python-nocopy.so) entirely over the C API without any weird hackery (e.g. finos/perspective#1157 (comment))

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 54.54545% with 5 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 87.87%. Comparing base (e1ed4d1) to head (14340ea).

Files	Patch %	Lines
arrow_python_nocopy/__init__.py	0.00%	5 Missing ⚠️

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