Fix the data dir of monitored (#11537)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11537

What is changed, added or deleted? (Required)

Fix the data dir of monitored instance from "/tidb-data-monitored-9100" to "/tidb-data/monitored-9100"

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What is the related PR or file link(s)?

• This PR is translated from: Fix the data dir of monitored instance docs#10684
• Other reference link(s): add topology YAML template #3279

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