*: update client-go to fix data race (#33775)

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cherry-pick #33775 to release-5.1
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close #33773

Signed-off-by: youjiali1995 [email protected]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #33773

Problem Summary:

refer to tikv/client-go#464

What is changed and how it works?

update client-go

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Fix the issue that TiDB server may panic due to data race in client-go.

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