[android][ios] Upgrade react-native-reanimated to 2.3.1 (expo#15574)

# Why

upgrade react-native-reanimated to 2.3.1 for sdk 44 release

# How

- `et uvm -m react-native-reanimated -c "2.3.1"`
- revert reanimated autolinking exclusion for bare-expo and bare-sandbox
- `et add-sdk -p ios -s 44.0.0 -v react-native-reanimated`
- `et remove-sdk -p android -s 44.0.0 && et add-sdk -p android -s 44.0.0` and pick reanimated changes.

# Test Plan

android versioned expo go + gesture handler NCL
ios versioned expo go + gesture handler NCL

package.json

@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@
     "react-native-infinite-scroll-view": "^0.4.5",
     "react-native-maps": "0.29.4",
     "react-native-paper": "^4.0.1",
-    "react-native-reanimated": "~2.3.0",
+    "react-native-reanimated": "~2.3.1",
     "react-native-safe-area-context": "3.3.2",
     "react-native-screens": "~3.10.1",
     "react-redux": "^7.2.0",